If your life is lack of love then every moment brings sadness, tastelessness and insipidity to you. Nothing can cause happiness if there is no harmony between you and your life partner. Life becomes painful in such situations. Many people have passed through such experiences. You consider each possible remedy to bring understanding and happiness in your relationship, except one, which we would discuss here, about.
Why does relationship deteriorate?
Most of the time, things like misunderstanding, suspicion, domination etc make your relationship languished. And these things are influential specially, when you and your partner are not capable enough, to handle the contradictory situations. When there are so much imbalance in your environment which don’t let you focus on your relationship.
How can Vaastu help you?
Vaastu talks about every basic aspects of life, which are mostly dependent on five elements- earth, water, fire, air and sky. Imbalances in these elements affect one’s psych and accordingly various aspects of his life like- financial status, health, relationship etc. If your mind is full of moroseness, you can’t handle the things that are deteriorating.
For example- you return home tired, after passing whole day in the office and the same time you find something not accordingly as you had expected. It brings you anger immediately. And you start fighting with your partner.
Vaastu can help through balancing these five elements in your structure. It brings you peace of mind. We shall discuss here some considerable Vaastu defects which cause relationship problems and their corresponding remedies.
Bedroom in Southeast: Southeast is fire direction. Lord Agnidev owned this direction. Quarrels and domestic violence are always found in the houses with master bedroom in southeast direction. If this is the case, apply light green color in this direction. It will bring peace of mind and fry the possibilities of quarrels.
If your bedroom is located in southwest then you can apply various colors in it. Apply Earthy color with brown shade combination to your bedroom. It stops your mind from distraction and enhances the concentration.
Uplifted and cut Northwest: You should check northwest. It should not be uplifted or cut. If it is so, your spouse can suspect on you to have cheated his/her. So you should keep it clean and open.
Remedy: Vaastu suggests you to apply pure white color in this direction to avoid the suspicious mood of your partner.
Dark Northeast: This is a lamentable situation, if your partner’s interest in you, is getting wane. In such condition, he/she might move to another option which is better in his/her opinion.
If you have placed a store in northeast and there’s no light in that store, then you might have such problems. Dark northeast in the house, causes distraction in relationship. Studies shows that even divorce cases are found in such houses where northeast is dark.
Remedy: Bring light to this direction.
Some Other Vaastu tips:
- Your bed should be situated like that your head should be in south direction while sleeping.
- Do not put old cracked stuffs inside your bed. People often use to keep their dirty clothes inside the bed. Avoid it.
- Don’t let other people like relatives and friends enter your bedroom, very often. Specially, don’t let them sit on your bed. They might bring some negative energy from outside, which is not good for your relationship. Try to keep it lesser than less.
Positive Affirmation: Enhance your visualization power, bring confidence. To power your relationship, think about happy moments you spent with your partner. Positive affirmation can bring the positive change. Feel that you have a happy and healthy relationship. This tip can help you to keep that feeling.
Take any image of you and your partner which shows a happy moment, and place it in the southwest direction of your bedroom.
Bedroom is the place where you spend much time with your spouse. So environment of bedroom must be according to Vaastu. If you have so much relationship problems and you are concern about it, go for detailed consultation- Vaastu for bedroom.
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